How do you develop connection with a girl you just met- 5 STEPS

My boy, listen to me very closely because I'm about to drop some knowledge on your face.

Tip #1. Stop trying to make girls like you.

This will change the way you think about girls. You can't make a girl like you. She either likes you or she doesn't. Don't waste your time trying to change her mind. The only thing you can control is who you are. All you can do is show her that you're the type of person who is definitely worth paying attention to.

Tip #2 Make her feel interesting

Just be genuinely interested in her as I'm sure you already are. People love to feel interesting, but you don't have to do much. Think about how you behave with something else you're interested in. Video game? Movie? What do you do when you want to find out more about those things. You ask questions and you listen to that you can satisfy your curiosity. Let your curiosity be your guide. (remember don't fake it because she can smell that sh*t a mile away)

Tip #3 Relate to her

If you want her to feel connected to you, you have to make her feel like you understand her. When she tells you something about her tell her a little story or say something to let her see that you know exactly what shes feeling. Shes going to love talking to you if she feels like you understand.

Tip #4 Be a challenge

If you ignore anything else I say don't ignore this. Girls don't like guys who are easy to get. They just don't. Girls think of guys who fall for a woman too easily the same way that guys think of sluts. They just don't get any respect. Sure you like her and you can show her that, but let her know that she has to do more than just show up to win you over.

Tip #5 Rejection is ok

If you get rejected it really doesn't matter. Its actually a good thing because now you know not to waste your time and you should go and find someone who is worthy of your attention. If it turns out shes not into you its ok. You tried and that takes balls. You're already a winner just because you tried. If you turn her off thats her problem not yours. There will always be more girls to talk to.

Hey!! You're a sexy man. Don't forget. Now go get her.

By AIP Fred Kagame Karekezi.